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How do I register at gofordesi.com?

GoForDesi.com is a matrimonial and matchmaking platform designed exclusively for the Indian community living in the USA, UK, Canada, Australia, New Zealand and selected Middle Eastern countries.

To register on GoForDesi.com, you must have:

  • A valid mobile number registered in one of our supported countries: USA, UK, Canada, Australia, New Zealand, UAE, Saudi Arabia, Oman or Kuwait.
  • A valid email address.

For security and authenticity, we verify:

  • Your mobile number by sending a One-Time Password (OTP).
  • Your email address by sending a verification link.

You can begin the registration process by clicking the "Register" button at the top of the page.

During registration, you will be asked a few basic questions about your location, religion and the region you belong to, to help us connect you with compatible matches.

After completing registration, you will be prompted to complete your profile by adding details about yourself and your expectations for a life partner. We strongly encourage you to provide as much information as possible. Your profile, including contact details, will be visible to other members and help them determine compatibility.

Please remember to upload your photos, as profiles with pictures receive significantly more attention and responses.

Once your profile is complete, you will automatically be enrolled in our FREE membership plan, which allows you to start browsing and searching for matches on the platform.

Is it FREE to register a matrimonial/dating profile on gofordesi.com?

Yes, registration on GoForDesi is completely FREE.

After you register and complete your profile by submitting your details, you are automatically enrolled in our Basic FREE Membership Plan.

With the free membership plan, you can:

  • Search for potential matches
  • Browse member profiles
  • Customize your search using filters on the “Customize Search” page

You can refine your search based on your preferences to find profiles that best match your expectations.

Please note that you will be able to view other members’ photos once your own profile includes at least one approved photo of yourself.

What is the cost of a Premium membership?

Premium membership pricing depends on your location.

  • USA: Starts at $29.99/month (regular price $39.99).
  • Canada: Starts at CAD $34.99/month.

Premium membership gives you access to additional features that help you connect with compatible members. You can view the available membership plans and applicable pricing at checkout before making a purchase.

Is my name, phone number and email address visible to other members?

We take your privacy seriously.

We NEVER display or share your name, phone number, or email address with other members — whether they are Free or Premium members. Your personal contact details remain completely private on our platform.

The only way to exchange contact information with another member is through mutual communication. As a Premium member, you can send an introductory message to another member. You can begin chatting with that member only after they accept your initial message. This ensures that communication happens with consent from both sides.

What is an Introduction Message?

The Introduction Message feature allows you to express your interest in another member's profile and let them know that you would like to connect.

Important points to remember:

Introduction messages are a simple way to express your interest and take the first step towards connecting with a potential match.

  • Do not include personal contact information such as your phone number, email address, social media handles, or other contact details in your Introduction Message.
  • Once the recipient accepts your Introduction Message, you can start communicating with them through the website, subject to your membership features.
  • If the recipient declines your Introduction Message, you can send a new introduction message to the same member after 3 months.

You can send an Introduction Message to a member whose profile interests you. Please keep your message polite and relevant to your interest in getting to know the person.

Who Can Send Introduction Messages, and How Many Can I Send Per Day?

Both Free and Premium members can send Introduction Messages, subject to their membership permissions.

Free Members:

  • Free members can send up to 2 Introduction Messages per day to Premium members.

Premium Members:

  • Premium members can send Introduction Messages according to their Premium membership permissions.

Messaging After Acceptance:

Once the other member accepts your Introduction Message, both members can exchange unlimited messages with each other through the platform, regardless of whether they have a Free or Premium membership. A Premium membership is not required to continue messaging after an Introduction Message has been accepted.

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Is it safe to add my photos along with the profile?

GoForDesi.com has disabled the right-click option on profile pictures displayed on the website to help prevent images from being easily downloaded.

We strongly encourage you to upload your photos, as we have observed that most members prefer to connect with profiles that display at least one picture.

If you do not feel comfortable uploading a full-size image, you may choose to upload a smaller or lower-resolution photo instead.

Can I change all of the profile details while updating my matrimonial/dating profile?

You can update most of the information in your profile yourself. However, there are some items (your e-mail address, date of birth, name, gender, and religion, etc.) which can be changed only in extraordinary/ exceptional circumstances. This too can be done only on request to support team, supported by valid reason(s) and/or necessary evidence.

How do I see contact numbers of other members?

We do NOT display members’ contact details anywhere on our website.

The only way to connect with another member is through our secure messaging system. Chat messaging between two members is enabled only after an Introduction Message has been sent and accepted — whether you sent the Introduction Message and it was accepted, or you accepted an Introduction Message sent to you.

Once chat messaging is enabled, you may request contact details (such as a phone number or WhatsApp number) through the website’s messaging system. However, we strongly recommend that you exchange contact information only after you have communicated for a sufficient period of time and feel safe and comfortable doing so.

If you experience any inappropriate behavior during chat messaging, you can submit an “Abuse Report” using the option available at the bottom of the member’s “View Profile” page. Our team takes such reports seriously and will review them promptly.

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Do you store my credit card information?

No, we do not store your credit card information. In fact, we never have access to your credit card details.

All payments are processed through a secure third-party payment gateway. Your credit card information is transmitted directly to the payment processor and is stored in encrypted form in compliance with international security standards and regulations.

This ensures that your financial information remains safe, secure, and protected at all times.

As a parent, can I create and manage a profile for my son or daughter?

Yes, as a parent, you are most welcome to create and manage a profile for your son or daughter on GoForDesi.

In fact, many parents are already registered on our platform and actively assist their children in finding a suitable life partner. We understand that in the Indian community, marriage is often a family decision, and parents play an important and supportive role in the matchmaking process — even when their children are living abroad in countries like the USA, UK, or Canada.

Parents can create a profile on behalf of their son or daughter and manage communication responsibly. You may browse profiles, send Introduction Messages (if enrolled in a Premium plan), and help facilitate meaningful conversations. At the same time, your child can also be involved in reviewing matches and communicating when appropriate.

Our platform is designed to support both individuals and families who wish to participate in the matchmaking journey together. Many successful matches on GoForDesi have been initiated with the involvement and guidance of parents.

We encourage open communication within the family and recommend that profiles created by parents clearly indicate that they are being managed by a parent. Transparency helps build trust and ensures a smooth matchmaking experience for everyone involved.

How GoForDesi Works?

GoForDesi is a FREE matrimony and dating platform built for the Indian community living in the USA, Canada, UK, and beyond. Here's how it works:

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1. Create Your Profile

Sign up for free and build your profile in a few simple steps. Tell us about yourself — your background, education, career, family, and what you're looking for in a partner. Upload your photos and verify your identity to build trust with other members.

2. Browse & Search

Explore profiles of verified members who match your preferences. Use our advanced search filters — religion, community, location, education, age, and more — to find someone who truly fits what you're looking for.

3. Express Interest

Found someone you like? Send them a message to notify that you are interested. Once the other person accepts your message, you're matched!

4. Chat & Connect

Once both of you accept, start a private conversation right on the platform. Get to know each other at your own pace — no phone numbers or personal details are shared until you're ready.

5. Upgrade for More (Optional)

Want unlimited browsing, messaging, and higher visibility? Upgrade to a Premium plan starting at just $34.99/month. Premium members enjoy unlimited interests, unrestricted profile browsing, and priority in search results.

6. Assisted Matchmaking (Optional)

Prefer a personal touch? Our Assisted Matchmaking service pairs you with a dedicated Relationship Manager who hand-picks matches, helps build your profile, and arranges introductions — just like a traditional family matchmaker, but modern.

Your Safety Matters

Every profile photo is reviewed before it goes live. You can block or report anyone, and hide your profile at any time. Your contact details are never shared without your consent.

Join thousands of Desi singles and families who've found meaningful connections on GoForDesi — sign up today, it's FREE!